“…Yet researchers have argued that disclosing a problem can have both intrapersonal and interpersonal costs, such as feeling less competent or failing to meet others' expectations (see Goldsmith, 2004;Lim, Teo, & Zhao, 2013). Indeed, "Revealing information about the self is risky because one is potentially vulnerable to being hurt, rejected, ridiculed, or humiliated" (Finkenauer, Kubacka, Engels, & Kerkhof, 2009, p. 304).…”