“…4,[14][15][16] It was also noticed that, anchored in the belief of inadequacy of the woman's clothing, the spouse perpetrates violent acts as a way of controlling them, which represents a symbolic and imperceptible violence Dealing with domestic violence Carvalho MRS, Oliveira JF, Gomes NP, Campos LM, Almeida LCG, Santos LR in the female imaginary. 17 Thus, gender asymmetry, which feeds the social beliefs of women being seen as the property of men, "empowers" them to "educate" women even if they have to use violence. 14 Still in the light of gender, as a category of analysis, the study points to the social construction of "being a good husband", since the discourse illustrates its root in the idea of the man provider.…”