The premise of this chapter is that the therapist's inner experience matters considerably when providing psychotherapy. It has a major and farreaching effect on what transpires in psychotherapy, how the work goes, and the extent to which the treatment is successful. Similarly, effective therapy of all persuasions is not simply a matter of the skilled application of techniques (e.g., reflection of the patient's feelings, interpretations, systematic desensitization) but also the therapist's inner experience, which impacts not only what techniques are chosen but also how they are applied. To use the technique of interpretation as an example, the tone, duration, content, depth, timing, and ultimately, the effectiveness of an interpretation will depend importantly on what the therapist is feeling and thinking about a patient and himself or herself at the moment of that interpretation, and probably at other moments, as well.Our focus in this chapter is twofold. First, we explore the inner experience of the good (i.e., effective) psychotherapist. The current wealth of
INNER EXPERIENCE AND THE GOOD THERAPIST