“…Prior work has examined the impact of significant other representations on individual goal pursuit (Fitzsimons & Bargh, 2003;Shah, 2003), the role that close partners may play in promoting versus inhibiting each person's pursuit of the ideal self (Drigotas, Rusbult, Wieselquist, & Whitton, 1999;Rusbult, Kumashiro, Kubacka, & Finkel, 2009), and the positive impact of promotion goal support for dating partners and of both promotion and prevention goal support for marital partners on couple well-being (Molden, Lucas, Finkel, Kumashiro, & Rusbult, 2009). In addition, prior work has examined the impact of victim-perpetrator regulatory fit on the forgiveness process, revealing that whereas a perpetrator's promotion-framed repentance enhances promotion-oriented victims' forgiveness, fit between prevention-framed repentance and victim prevention orientation less reliably enhances forgiveness (Santelli, Struthers, & Eaton, 2009).…”