Though a complex behavior, online privacy regulation has been considered by social media researchers to be a function of making information available or in the enactment of privacy controls, resulting in a perceived contradiction between concern for privacy and actual behaviors. Using data from interviews of 23 midlife adults, this study explores privacy management within social media use by examining privacy behaviors and strategies through an ecological lens, which considers how an individual's behavior intersects with the technological, social and discursive dimensions of the social media environment. This perspective highlights that social strategies such as connection selectivity and discursive treatments related to the quality of communicated information factor significantly into privacy management, behaviors which may be overlooked because they leave scant evidence. These findings provide further insight in the reconciliation of the privacy paradox, and offer more nuance to the understanding of how privacy is perceived and accomplished by individuals as they use social media platforms.On a practical level, individuals attempt to achieve privacy in everyday life by using selective concealment and disclosure, or by denying and granting varying levels of access to ourselves in our interactions with others (Nippert-Eng, 2010, p. 2). This entails such behaviors as pulling shades, latching doors and gates, securing papers and diaries in locked drawers, or even using code names and phrases to disguise identity. When using social media, however, these privacy regulation processes are clearly challenged, as established mechanisms of granting varying access to the self, such as discriminatory communication with defined groups of others or the selective disclosure of information, are not easily performed or replicated.