The phase state of a parametric resonator provides important information about the nonlinear damping and the ability to employ feedback to achieve self-sustained oscillations. We derive the minimum nonlinear damping value required to enable phase control of Duffing parametric resonators and confirm this using tunable nonlinear micromechanical devices with nonlinear damping values below and above the critical value. For softening resonators with nonlinear damping values beyond the critical value, we demonstrate parametric phase control to experimentally operate on the unstable branches of the parametric response. Parametric phase locking is an alternate method for forming a timing reference from a micromechanical resonator, provides a sensitive technique for measuring the nonlinear parameters, and enables future closed-loop measurements of the dynamics of driven single and coupled parametric resonators.