“…Not feeling welcome (Cescutti‐Butler & Galvin, ), not feeling important (Gallegos‐Martínez, Reyes‐Hernández, & Silvan Scochi, ), experiencing dictating and controlling nurses and feeling disrespected and frustrated due to inconsistencies in information and guidance (Cescutti‐Butler & Galvin, ; Jones, Taylor, Watson, Fenwick, & Dordic, ), lacking acknowledgement of their emotional situation (Wigert, Dellenmark Blom, & Bry, ), and not feeling involved in critical decision‐making, where parents found their observations of the infant were ignored (Sudia‐Robinson & Freeman, ), were all barriers to parents feeling respected and listened to. Nurses were not always aware of how their interactions negatively affected the parents (Jones et al, ). When the infant was in a stable phase, nurses often withdrew from the family to enhance the parents' independence, not recognising that they needed ongoing support from primary nurses to develop confidence (Fegran et al, ).…”