“…Contrary to our expectations, breakup anxiety was related to more perpetration of aggression for men but not for women. When interpreting unmet needs as threatening to the viability of their relationship, men may be more likely to use aggression, perhaps in a counterproductive attempt to control their partner and get their needs met (E. L. Kelley, Edwards, Dardis, & Gidycz, 2015). Breakup anxiety may motivate men more than women to pursue immediate self-centered rather than relationship-oriented goals (Dutton & Goodman, 2005), making them more susceptible to acting on aggressive impulses toward their partners (Finkel, DeWall, Slotter, Oaten, & Foshee, 2009).…”