Does My Grief Count? When Ex-Family Grieve

Abstract

This article examines the grief of ex(s)—spouses as well as ex-fathers, -mothers, -sisters, -brothers, -sons, and -daughters-in-law. Traditionally, such experiences of grief have been disenfranchised since there is no legal recognition of the individual as a griever. The individual does have a continuing role in the narrative and memories of the family. One social reality of contemporary families is the redefinition of roles in the family. The author examines types of ex(s), how ritual attendance and participation can be negotiated, and alternative means for “paying respects.”

Not Even Cold in Her Grave: How Postbereavement Remarried Couples Perceive Family Acceptance

“…Few empirical studies since that time have examined the dynamic of the dating relationship and subsequent marriage and its influence on the family and children (Langlais, Anderson, & Greene, 2015). It has become increasingly apparent that studying how the new relationship affects intergenerational relations is important (Amato, 2013;Smith, 2006). Stressful family relationships can create tension in the new postbereavement marriage.…”