We dress bare quantum graphs with finite delta function potentials and calculate optical nonlinearities that are found to match the fundamental limits set by potential optimization. We show that structures whose first hyperpolarizability is near the maximum are well described by only three states, the so-called three-level Ansatz, while structures with the largest second hyperpolarizability require four states. We analyze a very large set of configurations for graphs with quasi-quadratic energy spectra and show how they exhibit better response than bare graphs through exquisite optimization of the shape of the eigenfunctions enabled by the existence of the finite potentials. We also discover an exception to the universal scaling properties of the three-level model parameters and trace it to the observation that a greater number of levels are required to satisfy the sum rules even when the three-level Ansatz is satisfied and the first hyperpolarizability is at its maximum value, as specified by potential optimization. This exception in the universal scaling properties of nonlinear optical structures at the limit is traced to the discontinuity in the gradient of the eigenfunctions at the location of the delta potential. This is the first time that dressed quantum graphs have been devised and solved for their nonlinear response, and it is the first analytical model of a confined dynamic system with a simple potential energy that achieves the fundamental limits.