“…First, forgiveness may reflect an intent to heal the relationship even at the expense of maximizing one's individual outcome (i.e., sacrificing vengeful desires for the sake of repairing the relationship)-a truly cooperative or prosocial orientation in SVO terms (Van Lange, 1999), also labeled "relationship-oriented," "other-focused," or "inclusive" in the forgiveness literature (see Finkel et al, 2002;McCullough, 2008;Strelan, 2018;Strelan et al, 2013). 2 Second, forgiveness may reflect an individualistic orientation, such as trying to evade being sanctioned for violating a forgiveness norm, trying to manage one's mood, to protect one's ideal self, to regain social status or a sense of personal control, and so on (Baskin & Enright, 2004;Exline et al, 2003;Strelan & Covic, 2006;Strelan et al, 2013;Takada & Ohbuchi, 2013;Worthington & Scherer, 2004). Notably, such individualistic or "selforiented" forgiveness aims at maximizing the victim's outcomes without taking any consequences for the transgressor into account.…”