“…Destructive and negative communication between couples are linked to decrease in marital quality and effectiveness and to increase in divorce rates (Bradbury et al, 2000;Birditt, Brown, Orbuch and McIlvane, 2010;Stanley, Markman and Whitton, 2002) Couples are not always expected to arrive at a consensus. However, reaching a common ground and seeking ways to arrive at a consensus is necessary for a healthy relationship (Canel, 2007;Rosen-Grandon, 1998). In short, with regards to effective problem solving behaviors displaying constructive behaviors such as cooperating, making a positive communication, arguing in a calm manner and actively listening are factors that increase the effectiveness in marriages (Akçabozan and Hatipoğlu-Sümer, 2013;Birditt et al, 2010;Hacı, 2011;Özen, 2006;Tallman and Hsiao 2004).…”