“…Clients seemed to differ on how directive they wanted their therapists to be (Wark, 1994b), with some clients calling for therapists to strike a balance between structuring the session (James et al., 2006) and allowing the session to “flow” (Andersson et al., 2006; Davis & Piercy, 2007). Areas in which clients appeared to want therapists to direct the flow of communication included (a) helping couples to attend constructively to the positive aspects of their interactions (Bird et al., 2007), (b) instructing clients to repeat positive comments when it seemed their partners had not heard them (Andersson et al., 2006), (c) normalizing behaviors and helping to create a sense that clients could overcome their difficulties and create change (Bird et al., 2007), (d) setting ground rules related to improving listening and lessening or eliminating any type of verbal abuse (Bowman & Fine, 2000), (e) encouraging participation in enactments (Andersson et al., 2006), (f) assigning homework (Sells, Smith, & Moon, 1996), and (g) helping to close sessions positively (Bowman & Fine, 2000). Those clients preferring less directive therapists expressed interest in a therapist style of listening, collaborating, being responsive, and not following an agenda too closely (Stanbridge et al., 2003).…”