We study in this work the convergence of a sequence of asymptotically critical self-exciting systems. In these systems, we use multivariate marked Hawkes point processes to describe the event arrivals. Under mild assumptions we prove the weak convergence of their rescaled density processes to a multi-type continuous-state branching process with immigration (CBI-process). In addition, we also provide two scaling limits for their shot noise processes with limits being functionals of the multi-type CBI-process. Finally, we provide a Hawkes representation for Crump-Mode-Jagers branching processes and apply our limit results to study their asymptotic behavior. Specially, we observe an interesting phenomenon, known as state space collapse in queueing theory, in the population structure described by two measure-valued processes: age-distribution process and residual-life distribution process. Indeed, under a convergence condition on the life-length distributions, both the two rescaled measure-valued processes converge weakly to a common measure-valued diffusion process, which can be characterized as a lifting map of a multi-type CBI-process associated with the limit excess life-length distribution.