Parents will always want the best for their offspring. Nowadays, safety and security are something that everyone seeks. From the point of view of Maslow pyramid of needs, safety is on the second level after satisfying the physiological needs. In this article, we conducted two researches: on one hand, a qualitative study to discover the motives why parents urge their kids to train in different martial arts styles, and the latter, a quantitative research, to reveal which type of martial arts is better perceived on different social media platforms networks. The martial arts styles that we analyzed are: Aikido, Kyokushin and Shotokan. We have chosen these three styles as they are some of the best known and practice martial arts, especially want by children. Parents want their kids to develop in harmony, to consume their energy during practice as to get more focused at school and resolve their chores, be disciplined, stronger and more importantly be independent. Not being member of a team sport, the kid will rely only on his own power and capacity to deal with in different situations and not only. Studying and practicing karate, can also be a good protection for those who are bullied as a way of combating this kind of phenomenon that can have tremendous repercussions and even furthermore, to prepare them for the future. The recent incidents that happened both in the country and abroad, both inside and outside schools, can only reinforce the need to practice some defense sports.