This article describes an innovative mediation model, used among Ethiopian immigrant couples in Israel, which utilizes centuries‐old practices. The process, which employs indigenous lay leaders, called shmaglotz, is intended to enhance conventional interventions by human services professionals. The model practiced by the shmaglotz differs in key dimensions from conventional mediation. Its desired outcome—reconciliation—justifies almost all means, including the use of lies, in working with client systems. The model has been operative for several years, and most participating couples have remained together. There are, however, questions regarding its negative impact on the immigrants' modernization and integration processes.