“…Emmers-Sommer and colleagues outline such consequences as sanctions that are social (disappointing one's family), legal (experiencing divorce complications), relational (hurting one's partner and possibly terminating the relationship), and personal (feeling shame or guilt for one's actions), which serve to correct and/or punish behaviours that deviate from societal norms. Likewise, social, relational, and institutional frameworks pressure individuals to avoid extradyadic sexual encounters and reinforce the notion that an individual will "lose it all" if he or she strays from traditional norms of monogamy (Emmers-Sommer et al, 2010;Weaver, 2007). For instance, infidelity is the most common trigger for breakups in heterosexual relationships (Metts, 1994) and same-sex unions (Kurdek, 1991) and divorce among married couples (Amato & Previti, 2003).…”