This study aims to describe the function of language with speech as the realization of language politeness. This study also aims to describe the form of language for the realization of language politeness strategies. This study used qualitative descriptive research method. The object of this study was determined on the function and form of language as a language politeness strategy from the village cadet reef meeting. Data in the form of conversations used in cadet reef meetings regarding the opening of meetings, opinions expressed, and closing meetings on cadet reefs. Data collection techniques in village cadet reef meetings use documentation, recording, recording, and transkiption techniques. Then the data is analyzed using Miles and Hubberman analysis including data reduction, data presentation, and conclusions. The results showed that conversations that are included in the function of language as language politeness. And form language for the realization of civility strategies. This is expected to be an example in interactions with others.