We address the physics of equilibration in ultracold atomic gases following a quench of the interaction parameter. Our work is based on a bath model which generates damping of the bosonic excitations. We illustrate this dissipative behavior through the momentum distribution of the excitations, n k , observing that larger k modes have shorter relaxation times τ (k); they will equilibrate faster, as has been claimed in recent experimental work. We identify three time regimes. At short times n k exhibits oscillations; these are damped out at intermediate times where the system appears to be in a false or slowly converging equilibrium. Finally, at longer times, full equilibration occurs. This false-equilibrium is, importantly, associated with the k dependence in τ (k) and has implications for experiment.PACS numbers: 03.75. Kk, 47.37.+q, 43.20.Ks Introduction-Recent interaction quench experiments in cold bosonic gases are providing unique perspectives into the behavior of out-of-equilibrium dynamics of quantum systems [1][2][3][4][5]. These perspectives were hitherto not available in the quantum fluids of condensed matter. The extent to which equilibrium is accessible and the time constants for equilibration are all open questions. Equally of interest is the nature of metastable states, (often) so produced. Considerable theoretical attention has gone into this subject, albeit characterizing the post-quench physics entirely in terms of oscillatory behavior [4,6,7,[9][10][11].How long do these oscillations persist and how does ultimate equilibration proceed for different momentum states is a complicated problem that is the focus of the present paper. Here we discuss the different time scales associated with dissipation and equilibration in the context of the evolution of the momentum distribution n k for a three-dimensional Bose gas. While we use a specific bath model to derive detailed results for n k (t), our central results can almost be anticipated by making use of empirical observations in previous quench experiments [4,5]. As emphasized in both experiments, the equilibration dynamics is rather strongly dependent on the momentum of the state under consideration. An unpublished analysis [12] of the experiments in Ref. 4, led to the conclusion that damping at large momentum had to be included. Also notable is the claim that "it is perhaps not unexpected that higher momenta dynamics saturate faster" [5]. This demonstration that large momentum k, high energy, states equilibrate more rapidly than those at small k is the aim of this paper. It leads to a multistep equilibration process, assuming, as is reasonable, that the condensate also evolves in time as the system re-equilibrates.The important point at issue is that the relaxation times τ (k) disperse with k. At some intermediate time after the quench, there will always be higher energy k states which will be able to follow quasi-adiabatically the (necessarily) slower relaxation of the condensate. But lower energy states, as well as the condensate, will not