The flexural strength variability of α‐ based ceramics at elevated temperatures creates the need for an Integrated Computational Materials Engineering (ICME) framework that relates the strength of a specimen directly to its manufacturing process. To create this ICME framework, a model must first be developed which establishes a relationship between the chemical vapor infiltration (CVI) process and parameters, the resulting mesoscale pores, and the overall macroscale flexural strength. Here, a nonlinear single‐pore model of CVI is developed used in conjunction with a four‐way coupled thermo‐mechanical damage model. The individual components of the model are tested and a sample system under a four‐point bending test is explored. Results indicate that specimens with an initial porosity greater than 30% require temperatures below 1273 K to maintain structural integrity, while those with initial porosities less than 30% are temperature‐independent, allowing for optimization of the CVI processing time without compromising strength.