We have computationally studied the bimolecular nucleophilic substitution (SN2) reactions of MnNH2(n−1) + CH3Cl (M+ = Li+, Na+, K+, and MgCl+; n = 0, 1) in the gas phase and in tetrahydrofuran solution at OLYP/6‐31++G(d,p) using polarizable continuum model implicit solvation. We wish to explore and understand the effect of the metal counterion M+ and of solvation on the reaction profile and the stereochemical preference, that is, backside (SN2‐b) versus frontside attack (SN2‐f). The results were compared to the corresponding ion‐pair SN2 reactions involving F− and OH− nucleophiles. Our analyses with an extended activation strain model of chemical reactivity uncover and explain various trends in SN2 reactivity along the nucleophiles F−, OH−, and , including solvent and counterion effects. © 2019 Wiley Periodicals, Inc.