Cellular wirelesses heterogeneous networks (HetNets) have become an important part of the growth of the telecom industry. The rapid growth of cellular networks and widespread use of wireless services have led to a huge increase in energy use. This makes it hard to make cellular networks that use less energy and last longer. In HetNets, load balancing (LB) and energy balance have a big effect on cell range extension (CRE) and network lifetime extension (NLE). optimal energy efficient LB in wireless cellular HetNets is presented in this paper using a self-tuning algorithm. Several self-tuning methods for HetNets have been developed that are driven by the quality of experience (QoE). Unlike earlier heuristic-based approaches, the suggested technique uses a gradient ascending method to ensure that parameter modifications constantly increase overall system QoE, LB, throughput, and energy efficiency. The planned network's packet loss rate is extremely low. The suggested and contemporary models are tested in an experimental investigation, demonstrating the importance of the suggested model in comparison to other contemporary methodologies.