Current feminist theories consider femininity and masculinity distinct and inherent properties (Chodorow 1978;Dinnerstein 1976;Gilligan 1982). Likewise, contemporary research into female and male linguistic behavior holds that women's and mens speech practices are "different but equal" (e.g. Tannen 1990). Women are found to be cooperative, employing addressee-oriented speech behavior, and men are found to be dominant, employing speaker-oriented speech behavior (e.g. On the assumption that language usage reflects the Speaker's point of view, we define femininity äs adopting women's viewpoint and masculinity äs adopting mens viewpoint. We propose a notion of Seif and of Other points ofview in language. We argue that while men canfully adopt a Seif, masculine point of view, being the dominant group, women, äs a powerless group, may find it difficult to identify with their group's objectives. Traditional women, are, therefore, expected to adopt the point of view of the Other, projecting a masculine point of view: their language is expected to pattern like men s. Feminist awareness, however, may override social constraints and should, therefore, enable feminists to exhibit a genuine femininity, adopting a Seif (feminine) point of view. Our findings indeed show that traditional women and men writers' speech behavior is similar. In contrast, the speech behavior of feminists and traditional female writers is different. These findings cannot be accounted for by an essentialist hypothesis, which predicts that differences should düster around the gender dichotomy.