Intergenerational relationships: do older adults experience ambivalence with their adult children?

Abstract

This study aims to analyze the perspectives of intergenerational relationships between older adults and adult children. For this purpose, a qualitative research was carried out, which analyzes these relations at a cross-national level. Four hundred and twenty four older participants aged 65-97 years, were interviewed. Participants were of three different nationalities and lived in the community. All the interviews went through the process of verbatim transcription and subsequent content analysis. Two dimensions of generational ambivalence were revealed from the study; support and the conflict dimensions. Findings of content analysis produced six themes, which represent intergenerational relations between older adults and adult children: older adults-adult children interaction quality; family integration; care and support; definition of limits; distance and alienation; and communication difficulties. This study highlighted the diversity of experiences in old age, in relation to intergenerational relationships and underlined the conflicting expectations from older adults in relation to their adult children.

Self-Positive reminiscence about grandparents

“…Nevertheless, not having selfpositive reminiscences does not mean having self-negative reminiscence. Further studies might address adult GC self-negative or prosocial reminiscences about their GPs that could bring new understanding about negative and ambivalent GP-GC interactions that still understudied (von Humboldt et al, 2021).…”