The cross section for ionization of Ne Rydberg atoms (17 5 n 5 40) by Si(CH,), is measured to be (7.0 2 3.0) x lo-', cm2, whereas that by C(CH,), is less than 1.2 X cm2. This remarkable difference is explained by a mechanism of vibrational deexcitation of the target molecule. The observed cross sections are reproduced by a calculation using the dipole-moment derivatives for the lowest infrared-active modes, U , , -U ,~. measured by far-infrared spectroscopy.