“…Although various models of gay identity development differ in the number of stages, their defining characteristics, and transitional mechanisms, they all propose that an individual progresses through a series of developmental stages and the process generally begins with an initial awareness of same‐sex attraction, followed by same‐sex sexual experience, self‐labeling, self‐disclosure, and eventually, the adoption of a positive gay identity (which acknowledges the value of both heterosexuality and homosexuality). Progression through these stages is driven by the desire to establish congruence between the individual's self‐perception and the environment (Cass, ), and with this progression, the nature of the interactions between an individual and the gay community evolves similarly (Hsieh & Wu, .) Additionally, gay individuals can experience the identity development process differently (Kates, ) and present variation in terms of desires, behaviors and self‐identification (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, ).…”