“…The family provides a primary context for understanding how family members function within their relationships with one another and how the respective members behave towards one another. Just as relationships within a system reciprocally influence one another, and behaviour patterns are set by repetitive interac tion with other people (Becvar & Becvar, 2003 ;Corey, 2000), repeated exposure to the impulsive and affectively unstable characteristics of a parent can cause and strengthen the same unstable behaviour patterns and problematic characteristics in children (Allen & Farmer, 1996;James & Vereker, 1996;Kamsner & McCabe, 2000;Shachnow et al, 1997;Wilkins, 2002). Various studies indicate that children exposed to early traumatic experiences (such as sexual molestation, psychological and physical abuse, neglect, observation of domestic violence, early separation experiences, broken families, and living with a parent with an impulse control or personality disorder) usually have a higher likelihood of developing BPD (Hoffman, Fruzzetti, & Swenson, 1999;Hurd, Wooding, & Noller, 1999;Liotti et al, 2000;Walsh, 1977;Weaver & Cium, 1993;Zanarini, Gunderson, Marino, Schwartz, & Frankenburg, 1989).…”