The lay‐led, community‐based Supporting Parents Programme (SPP) aims to assist parents caring for children with long‐term or life‐limiting conditions through support and cognitive behavioral techniques. The value of the SPP from the perspectives of parent participants and tutors was examined in focus groups and telephone interviews. Data were analyzed using framework analysis. Parents perceived a commonality of emotions and practical issues, valued meeting similar others, felt less isolated, more positive, motivated, and more calm; some had found the “real me again.” Changes were attributed to techniques learned. Parents were anxious of being cast adrift at the end of SPP. Tutors needed more support and additional training around child protection and confidentiality. © 2008 Wiley Periodicals, Inc.