In spring 1995, a six‐page questionnaire on the topic of including or excluding children in mediation was mailed to all 630 practitioner members of the Academy of Family Mediators. Overall, 51 percent returned the survey. Of those responding, 31 percent were attorneys, 46 percent had graduate‐level mental health backgrounds, and an additional 7 percent had both legal and mental health backgrounds. The survey revealed that 77 percent of respondents included children, either following settlement to discuss the parenting plan or during the mediation as a source of additional information. Respondents' reasons for including or excluding children are outlined here.