“…Humans tend to be naturally suspicious of anything they do not understand, needing credible evidence of illness to believe it exists (Ali et al, 2000;Dancey, Fox, & Devins, 1999 Family members may, as the general public do, find it more difficult to acknowledge illness in conditions that are usually invisible, including IBD and epilepsy, irritable bowel syndrome, chronic fatigue syndrome or chronic back pain, and more so when public knowledge about the condition is poor (Jenkin, Koch, & Kralik, 2006). Referring to Heidegger's notions of concealment and unconcealment as relating to truth, Withy (2017) explains that to show up meaningfully is for an entity to be unconcealed as there, rather than not. In unconcealing (revealing) the self, a person with IBD shows themselves to be there, which may suggest availability to some degree of recognition and understanding from others.…”