“…At the macrolevel, such gifts create deadweight losses in the economy (Waldfogel, 1993) and reinforce outdated social norms (Sherry, 1983). At the individual level, research has likewise illuminated a less rosy view of gift giving (Sherry et al, 1993), demonstrating that givers sometimes feel negative emotions when choosing gifts (Cheng et al, 2020; De Hooge, 2014, 2017; Givi & Galak, 2017; Wooten, 2000) and possess conflicting preferences, mindsets, or motives compared to recipients' own (Aknin & Human, 2015; Baskin et al, 2014; Cavanaugh et al, 2015; Chan & Mogilner, 2017; Gino & Flynn, 2011; Givi & Galak, 2017; Goodman & Lim, 2018; Paolacci et al, 2015; Polman & Emich, 2011; Steffel & LeBoeuf, 2014; Ward & Broniarczyk, 2016; Yang & Urminsky, 2018; for a review, see Galak et al, 2016). In complement to these findings, our studies point to a unique case whereby giving even a “good” gift can have negative consequences for an interpersonal relationship.…”