Boundary issues in the experience of grandparenting a preterm grandchild

Abstract

Objective The aim of this study is to examine the experience of grandparenting a preterm grandchild up to first year after the birth, in the Israeli context. Background The birth of a preterm infant has an impact on the entire family, including grandparents. Although preterm birth is very common, thus far, there are only a few published studies about grandparents of premature infants. Method The study was designed and conducted according to the Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis method. In‐depth semi‐structured interviews were conducted with 13 grandparents ages 54–72 years. Results Results indicated that the issue of boundaries was the core category and yielded three subthemes: (1) internal boundaries—our experience or internalized prematurity, (2) interpersonal boundaries—my grandchild and me, and (3) external boundaries between the medical facility and the grandparents—the omnipotent NICU (neonatal intensive care unit). Conclusions The current research demonstrates the importance of focusing on grandparents of premature infants as individuals in need of support, as well as an important resource for the immediate family of the baby. Implications This should be taken into consideration in visiting policies and delivery of psychosocial services in NICUs.

“I’ll Be There”: Informal and Formal Support Systems and Mothers’ Psychological Distress during NICU Hospitalization

“…At the same time, the extended family itself has to deal with uncertainty regarding the health of the new infant in addition to the strict policies of the NICU regarding the care and contact of family members. The role of the grandparents among the extended family is particularly significant [ 35 ], and the involvement of the parents’ parents is appreciable for preterm mothers.…”