This article draws on data from focus group interviews with bisexual-identified women who are in long-term monogamous relationships with men, and it explores the ways one can attempt to be visible as a bisexual through the creation of a 'bisexual display. ' The focus here is on such displays for a limited audience-a small group of people, close friends and family, or even just within intimate relationships. Through these limited displays, the actor often has more control over how the message is perceived and if it is perceived correctly, and this can be a significant way of keeping bisexuality 'alive' for the individual who is not 'behaviorally' bisexual in terms of current sexual activity.
KEYWORDS bisexuality, sexual identity, womenWhen it comes to the visibility of bisexuality in our society, the way that we conceive of sexuality in our society presents two major roadblocks. First, the dominant view that sexuality is dichotomous means there is no space for those whose lives fall outside of two supposedly opposite, mutually exclusive categories of heterosexual and homosexual. In this conceptualization of sexuality bisexuality simply does not exist. Second, there is little room for sustained bisexual identity if one accepts the assumption that sexual behavior primarily if not completely determines one's sexual identity within the categories of sexuality. In this view, if someone is currently sexually active with someone of the 'opposite' gender, she or he is heterosexual. If she or he is dating someone of the 'same' gender, she or he is homosexual. Bisexuals who choose to be in monogamous relationships are consequently defined based on whom they chose as a partner, creating even more invisibility for