This chapter describes how an enduring friendship based on shared curiosity, vulnerability, trust, generosity, integrity, and commitment over time shaped personal and professional development across intersectional identities.As higher education continues to reflect an increasingly global and diverse workforce, society, and world, educational developers are often called upon to assist instructors with understanding a complex student body, as well as each other' s perspectives. We have long considered how prepared we in educational development are for this task. The genesis for this manuscript is the need educational developers face to help instructors understand the implications of intersecting identities in learner interactions; in designing inclusive learning environments, courses, and curricula; in developing and assessing learning outcome goals for student social and civic engagement; as well as in collegial relationships. We are quick to view self-reflection as pivotal to gains in the knowledge, skills, and values instructors need in order to understand and respond successfully to today' s classroom dynamics. Very rarely, however, do we find that educational developers are invited to reflect in sustained, contemplative ways on how our own social and cultural identities shape our professional practices (Takacs 2003). "Are you culturally intelligent to work in a multicultural environment?" is a question we are increasingly ready to engage with our colleagues (Earley and Ang 2003;Van Dyne, Ang, and Koh 2015). We ask: how prepared are we, as educational developers, to have this question directed toward us? And, perhaps more importantly, how might we as educational developers create more intentional and conscious pathways to such competencies? We suggest that friendship has an important and underexplored role to play in our intercultural growth and development.