Background Asian countries are trying to apply the partnership model in doctor-patient communication that has been effectively applied in Western countries. The study aimed to investigate whether communication model used in the Western world are appropriate in Southeast Asia and to identify key items in doctor-patient communication that should be included in a doctor-patient communication model for training in Vietnam (a Southeast Asian country).Methods In six provinces, collaborating medical schools collected data from 480 patients interviewed using a structured guideline after a consultation session and from 473 doctors using a cross-sectional survey on how they conduct consultation sessions with patients. Data collection tools covered a list of communication skills based on Western models, adapted to fit with local legislation.Results Both patients and doctors considered most elements in the list necessary for good doctor-patient communication. Both also felt that while actual communication was generally good, there was also room for improvements. Furthermore, the doctors had higher expectations than the patients. Four items in the Western model for doctor-patient communication, all promoting the partnership relation between them, appeared to have lower priority for both patients and doctors in Vietnam.Conclusion The communication model used in the Western world could be applied in Vietnam with minor adaptations. Increasing patients’ understanding of their partner role needs to be considered. The implications for medical training in universities are to focus first on the key skills perceived as needed to be strengthened by both doctors and patients. In the longer term, all of these items should be included in the training to prepare for the future.