This study examined the extent to which 164 married heterosexuals’ reports of the sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy during pregnancy predicted the trajectory of the couples’ observed intimacy skills during late pregnancy and when their first child was 3, 6, and 12 months old. At each time point, couples were videotaped in their homes for 10 min discussing their fears and vulnerabilities about becoming and being a new parent. Separate teams of three coders rated the four interactions and each spouse’s intimacy skills, including disclosure of feelings of vulnerability about becoming or being a new parent, and supportive comments and positive non-verbal responses to each other. Using a multi-level dyadic discrepancy approach to growth curve modeling, both husbands’ and wives’ observed intimacy skills displayed a curvilinear trajectory over the first year of parenthood, with wives consistently displaying more emotional intimacy skills than husbands. Consistent with hypotheses, higher endorsement of the sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy between spouses at home predicted higher observed intimacy skills across time. No variation in these associations emerged due to parent gender. Thus, this longitudinal study identifies two specific spiritual processes within marriages that may motivate spouses to share their vulnerabilities and provide one another with valuable emotional support in coping with the transition to parenthood.
For years, critics of corporal punishment have pointed out that parents may lean on Bible passages such as these to justify harsh or physically abusive parenting (Dyslin & Thomsen, 2005). Yet parental spirituality encompasses more than isolated disciplinary beliefs or practices shored up by narrow interpretations of sacred scriptures. Broadly speaking, spirituality can be part of the problem or the solution when dysfunctional parenting occurs within families referred for psychotherapy. Moreover, numerous studies of non-clinicreferred families have shown that greater parental spirituality tends to predict better parenting in national or community samples of married heterosexual people and single mothers (Mahoney, 2010;Mahoney, Pargament, Swank, & Tarakeshwar, 2001). For example, greater importance of religion or spirituality in one's life and religious attendance correlate with greater maternal self-efficacy and positive parenting methods by single, adolescent mothers and with a lower risk of child maltreatment in low-income and minority families (e.g., Carothers, Borkowski, Lefever, & Whitman, 2005
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