Not long after, she received a rejection email from the editor. It had not even made it out to peer review. The dreaded desk-rejection.Crest-fallen, she trudged her way to her senior colleague's office, who had co-authored the manuscript with her."The paper's been rejected." she mumbled."Oh, your first rejection?" he responded, oddly bright about the whole situation."Yes." she muttered to the carpet."Well done, then. Your first rejection is a milestone to be proud of." She stared at her colleague, highly confused."Lynelle, if you want to be here … if you want to be an academic, you have to learn to accept that rejection is just a part of life. It means you're working."As health professional educators, often our scholarship feels directly linked to our personal identity. 1 As a result, scholarly rejection, particularly when experienced as an early academic researcher, can be entirely destabilising. 2 As co-authors from diverse health professional backgrounds, we found common ground in our experiences of struggling with and learning from academic rejection. In this paper, we explore our internal narratives to identify lessons that can be drawn from the inevitability of scholarly rejection. We hope that this personal view adds to the formal dialogue 3,4 surrounding rejection, with the hope to destigmatise the experience and remind scholars that they are not alone in facing rejection. 5 In particular, we aim to offer insights for early career researchers, who may be unfamiliar and fearful of rejection, and provide consideration for an alternate viewpoint.