Four years after South Africa's first democratic election, the 'new' South Africa, with its constitutionally enshrined rejection of prejudice and discrimination, has seen many changes. Not least of these has been ground-breaking policy decisions regarding the rights of women to freedom and equality. In South Africa, women are on the agenda: of trade unions, political organizations, aspects of civil society, universities and within grass-roots structures (Basilli, 1991). Whereas in apartheid years issues of gender were necessarily subsumed by issues of race, the current political climate has opened opportunities for women's issues to occupy a less marginal space.Despite South Africa's status as a world leader in progressive policy regarding women's issues, many South African women live amid stark contrasts between policy and practice. For example, although South Africa recently became one of the few countries in the world to recognize marital rape as a criminal offence, statistics show that South Africa has one of the highest rates of domestic violence and rape in the world. In 1984, it was estimated that 60 percent of marital relationships involved abuse (Shifman et al., 1998). The South African police estimate that a woman is raped every 35 seconds in South Africa and yet rape has the lowest conviction rate of all assault crimes (at 16 percent in 1993) (Shifman et al., 1998). Although policy values progressive praxis, lived experience of South African women highlights the radical disjuncture between progressive policy and oppressive practice. This contradiction was evident when President Nelson Mandela recently consoled a mother whose daughter had been murdered by assuring her that violent crimes are on the decrease in South Africa, but