Acknowled gments This book is based on research carried out over almost ten years, and there are consequently many, many individuals and organizations to thank for their assistance, friendship, and support. As always, my deepest thanks go to Mary Tamia and June Pogaya, my beloved besties in Tari, who have shared everything with me-stories, food, families, insights, laughter, tears, fear, and, fury. I am also deeply thankful for Jacinta Hayabe's friendship since 1996. During our many long, cigarette-filled, latenight conversations, she proved an invaluable interlocutor and especially helped me understand the complex political field of women's groups in the region. I am grateful to Michael Parali, Luke Magala, Ken Angobe, and Thomas Mindibi, the four wonderful men who worked as my field assistants in 2004, were brave enough to pose forthright questions about love, sex, marriage, extramarital relationships, and HIV to their peers, and had no compunction about telling me when interview questions were problematic. My deepest condolences go to the family of Joseph Warai, who directed the Community Based Health Care (CBHC) NGO in the mid 2000s and was very supportive of my 2004 research project. Joseph and the whole CBHC team persevered in delivering health promotion and income-generating projects to people in the Tari area during a desperate and precarious period, and they were a source of hope and inspiration for many. I was also sad to learn that Sister Pauline Agilo had died. She was a comfort to many people living with HIV and AIDS, and especially helped people as best she could in the pre-antiretroviral era. During my research stints in 2010, 2011, 2012, and 2013, a number of health workers assisted me by telling patients about my research and asking them if they were interested in being interviewed. They also, with the permission of patients, x Acknowledgments allowed me to observe some of their counselling sessions, and they shared with me their concerns about patients' living situations and about the sometimes unreliable availability of antiretrovirals and other essential medicines in Tari. I am especially grateful for Margaret Parale's friendship and assistance during this research. Employees of the Oil Search Health Foundation also assisted in recruiting participants for me, and provided me with useful data about Tari's HIV prevalence. Jethiro Harrison and Ruben Enoch were University of Papua New Guinea student interns with me in Tari for a few weeks in 2013. Among other things, they helped me to understand the powerful allure of Port Moresby that can attach itself to those who have lived there and attract other people when they return to rural areas. I am also grateful to the staff of Médecins sans frontières in Tari who were so generous to me, especially when my guesthouse did not have water or electricity. I feel profoundly lucky to belong to the Department of Anthropology at the University of Toronto, where I have wonderful and brilliant colleagues, whose ideas have influenced mine. I am also grateful to ...