“…Wrongdoing has at least two sides: one person (“victim”) has been harmed, hurt, or insulted by another person (“offender”). Current social psychological research has helped understand each individual party’s behavior, including when victims seek punishment of offenders (e.g., Yoshimura & Boon, 2018) and offenders self-punish (e.g., De Vel-Palumbo et al, 2018), when victims seek and offenders offer apologies (e.g., Fehr & Gelfand, 2010; Schumann, 2018), and—important here—when victims offer forgiveness and offenders self-forgive (e.g., Fehr et al, 2010; Woodyatt et al, 2017).…”