“…Unfortunately, IPA does not always end when the relationship ends, and in fact often escalates (Fleury, Sullivan, & Bybee, 2000; Hardesty, 2002; Hardesty & Chung, 2006; Jaffe, Lemon, & Poisson, 2003; Kurz, 1996). Many women experience postseparation abuse (PSA) and, for mothers, much of this abuse is directed at and/or occurs through their children (Beeble, Bybee, & Sullivan, 2007; Bemiller, 2008; Hardesty, 2002; Hardesty & Ganong, 2006; Harrison, 2008; Kurz, 1996; Moe, 2009; Slote et al, 2005). Women report that abusers use their children to exert control over them by threatening the children’s lives, mistreating their children to punish them, and being physically abusive toward the children (Hardesty & Ganong, 2006; Slote et al, 2005).…”