2011
DOI: 10.1177/0891241611429302
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Waltzing Matilda

Abstract: In this autoethnographic essay, I consider the experience of my daughter Matilda's stillbirth. I explore stillbirth, grief, tactile contact with death, and how all of these demonstrate the strictures and ruptures of masculinity in Western cultures. I counterpose these realities against the political, economic, and medical discourses of stillbirth as a means of exploring how social structures mediate and complicate parents' experiences of their children's deaths. Fathers' experiences form the core of my analysi… Show more

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“…This is despite some of the work we have conducted showing that care work for a loved one extends well beyond death, and so can the effects of care work (Moreau & Robertson, 2019). Likewise, pregnancy loss was mostly ignored despite evidence of the devastating effects on the individuals involved (a remarkable exception to this is the autoethnographic essay written by Marcus Weaver‐Hightower, 2012).…”
Section: The Liminalities Of Carementioning
confidence: 99%
“…This is despite some of the work we have conducted showing that care work for a loved one extends well beyond death, and so can the effects of care work (Moreau & Robertson, 2019). Likewise, pregnancy loss was mostly ignored despite evidence of the devastating effects on the individuals involved (a remarkable exception to this is the autoethnographic essay written by Marcus Weaver‐Hightower, 2012).…”
Section: The Liminalities Of Carementioning
confidence: 99%
“…(After all, Erin, Nivea, and April were so deftly all of these things.) Based on these failings, I tried to learn about these Right Things to say through dozens of academic readings, many authored by bereaved parents themselves (Bute, 2015;Godel, 2007;Weaver-Hightower, 2012). But when I was face to face with grieving families, my words always felt scripted and hollow; I felt like I was reciting a bad Hallmark card.…”
Section: Developing Compassionate Communication Skillsmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Definitions of stillbirth vary, but typically denote the death of a fetus past 20 weeks gestation, in utero or during labor. In Canada, 7 in 1000 pregnancies end in stillbirth (Joseph et al, 2013), a small but significant number of losses, which, since stillbirth remains a mostly taboo subject, are often suffered privately by parents who feel isolated and misunderstood (Lang et al, 2011;McCreight, 2004;Weaver-Hightower, 2012).…”
Section: Characteristics Of the Communitymentioning
confidence: 99%