For the last five months, I was by myself in this house. I was pretty alone and scared for the first half month … I usually go out … with my friends. And then I just come back and then go right in my room. I was by myself, and I was in the bedroom, and I was sleeping … and they [burglars] came in the basement and they took the computer, and they were gone. Luckily, they didn't, like, harm me or anything. Well, the first year I don't really miss my parents because I have a lot of freedom, right? So, I quite enjoy it. Because when I was in Hong Kong my parents were really strict …. The last five months I spent by myself [and] I quite miss them now. All of my friends is like: 'Oh! You're so lucky! You have a big house and you are by yourself.' But I also think, it's not that lucky when you, like, when it actually happens to you … If your parents and your family are away from you, it's really not that great. Really lonely and sad. If you want to talk to someone, you can't.No one [to] support you or anything. I never talk to anyone about, like, really sad stuff. Yeah, I talk to my friends, but I never talk about sad stuff. Last Friday I just got broken in, right? The house. So, actually, it's not a big thing, but I am thinking it's unfair. It's happened to me twice already. And I'm really sad and I think of all the sad stuff, like, [that has] happened since I come to Canada and stuff. Like, I was really sad last Friday. I was really, really sad … And then I called my friends to talk to them … But I can't! [Laughs]
| INTRODUCTION AND RESEARCH CONTEXTAbove is a short extract from a much longer transcript of an interview with a teenage immigrant. The interview was conducted in 1999 as part of a larger research project (Waters, 2000), carried out by me, a lone researcher in her early 20s studying for a two-year Master's degree. This interview was with Paul [pseudonym], aged 15, conducted in his house in West Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. I interviewed 15 immigrants under the age of 18, in total, about their experiences of living alone (or with a sibling) without direct, daily adult supervision. The interviews were part of a larger project on transnational families living between Hong Kong/Taiwan and Vancouver. During the 1990s and