The compounds (R)‐ and rac‐[1‐(dimethylamino)ethyl]benzene, (R)‐1 and rac‐1, respectively, react quantitatively with tBuLi in a 1:1 molar ratio in pentane to give the corresponding (R)‐ and rac‐[Li4{C6H4[CH(Me)NMe2]‐2}4], (R)‐2 and rac‐2, respectively. The same reaction with nBuLi afforded a 1:1:1 aggregate of nBuLi, 2, and 1 according to the results of quench experiments with H2O and D2O. The 1H, 13C, and 7Li NMR spectra, as well as the single‐crystal X‐ray structure, reveal that (R)‐2 has a unique self‐assembled tetranuclear structure of two diastereoisomeric dimeric units both in solution, in non‐coordinating hydrocarbon solvents, and in the solid state. Detailed information about rac‐2, which, in contrast to the high solubility of (R)‐2, is essentially insoluble in hydrocarbon solvents, was provided by 13C CP/MAS NMR spectra. We conclude that rac‐2 is a self‐assembled tetranuclear aggregate comprising a combination of two dimeric units, but in this case they are derived from the (R)‐ and (S)‐enantiomers, respectively. (© Wiley‐VCH Verlag GmbH & Co. KGaA, 69451 Weinheim, Germany, 2004)