“…The personal accomplishment of "never married" (Davis, 1994), "unmarried" (Lewis, 1998), "older single women" (Siegel, 1995a), single mothers "by choice" (Bock, 2000) or "as a choice" (Siegel, 1995b), or "mature unwed mothers" (Linn, 1991) suggests that dominant meanings are further embedded in everyday language and commonplace metaphors (Hare-Mustin & Marecek, 1994). The growing number of mature women who "refuse to see marriage as their destiny, as men have always refused to see it" (Heilbrun, 1988, p.88) further suggests that we are not entirely aware of the whole narrative of motherhood as an important separate component in women's lives (Johnson, 1988;Laird, 1989;Linn, 1996a;Ludtke, 1997).…”