“…In general terms, the therapist is advised to slow down the conversation to allow silences, time for thinking (Anderson, 2002; Haarakangas, Seikkula, Alakare, & Aaltonen, 2007; Seikkula & Arnkil, 2006; Seikkula & Trimble, 2005) and the expression of emotions (Andersen, 1987; Bertrando & Lini, 2019; Olson, Seikkula, & Ziedonis, 2014; Seikkula, 2011; Seikkula & Trimble, 2005). By allowing time to think and speak, a person is able to put words to past experiences, as well as emotions and current concerns, and thus transform non‐conscious embodied experiences into spoken narratives (Seikkula, 2008), which are then open to possible transformation (Anderson & Goolishian, 1988).…”