1993
DOI: 10.2307/2167203
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The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap.

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“…Today, the very nature and permanence of family is also under scrutiny, but for much of my career, I clung to a sense of the permanence of family that I can no longer sustain. So much has happened in my life that no longer resonates with my tried and true definitions of family, but instead, confounds me, offering key insights to shake up my worldview about families and the received wisdom promoted in traditional family scholarship, roundly critiqued by Coontz (2016), in addition to a growing number of intersectional, queer, and feminist scholars (Few-Demo & Allen, 2020). For example, I consider myself queer, even though I no longer live in a lesbian relationship.…”
Section: Continuity and Change Over The Life Course: Experiencing Res...mentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Today, the very nature and permanence of family is also under scrutiny, but for much of my career, I clung to a sense of the permanence of family that I can no longer sustain. So much has happened in my life that no longer resonates with my tried and true definitions of family, but instead, confounds me, offering key insights to shake up my worldview about families and the received wisdom promoted in traditional family scholarship, roundly critiqued by Coontz (2016), in addition to a growing number of intersectional, queer, and feminist scholars (Few-Demo & Allen, 2020). For example, I consider myself queer, even though I no longer live in a lesbian relationship.…”
Section: Continuity and Change Over The Life Course: Experiencing Res...mentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Intensive mothering only makes sense for contemporary constructions of children as being innocent and in need of protection (Berstein, 2011; Zelizer, 1994). By contrast, European colonists viewed children as marked by original sin and in need of guidance to keep their sinful impulses in check (Bernstein, 2011; Coontz, 2016; Mintz, 2004) and throughout history children were often treated as adults in training who were valued for their economic potential (Bernstein, 2011; Mintz, 2004; Zelizer, 1994). Instead of cherishing and extending childhood, the focus was on hurrying children toward a state in which they could contribute economically by laboring on farms or by working in mills and factories (Mintz, 2004).…”
Section: Historical Foundations and Structural Challenges Of Intensiv...mentioning
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“…Individualism is central to this ideology, and the individuals it conjures up are willing to cope with adversity and accept responsibility for their situations (McGinnis, 2009) rather than depend on government aid or provisioning. It is also a crucial element of the middleclass bargain that government interventions for middle-class success are made invisible so middle-class Americans can believe they "made it on their own" (Coontz, 1992). In positive cases, the American Dream enables subjects to feel pride and effective agency when they can achieve upward mobility.…”
Section: Homeownership and The American Dreammentioning
confidence: 99%