The present study compares metaphors and intimate relationships. It is argued that both may be viewed as relational and that both may be categorized into four distinct styles. Hypotheses addressing correspondences between the four linguistic and social styles were investigated in an empirical study. Twenty-six couples completed a 48-item Q-sort containing word pairs representing four types of metaphors. Couple members also completed measures of symbolic interdependence, adjustment/happiness, commitment, and agreement. A Q factor analysis assigned subjects to one of three relationship types on the basis of the types of metaphors chosen to characterize their relationships. Differences between the three types' scores on the measures of relationship qualities provided validity for the assignment of types and for concluding that parallels exist between linguistic and social forms.Questions addressing the relationships between language and social behavior have long interested scholars. The perspective derives from such figures as Sapir and Whorf, Simmel, Mead, Cooley, Cassier, and Burke; and more recently, Blumer, Chomsky, Duncan, and Goffman (see Duncan, 1967 for a review; also Combs & Mansfield, 1976). These theorists, among others, have approached the language-behavior relationship from their own disciplinary vantages and have generated specialized hypotheses related to several central, widely held propositions. Among these propositions are the guiding notions that: (a) the stock of available symbols determines boundaries for thought and expression within a culture; (b) a language system may be grammatically structured in order to permit the possibility of adequate expression or grasp of some propositions and not others; and (c) the recognition of symbols as social instruments leads to the analysis of intention, purpose, or motive through examination of actors' linguistic choices and characteristic symbolic styles.