A study of the reactivity of several N‐heterocyclic carbenes (NHCs) and the cyclic (alkyl)(amino)carbene 1‐(2,6‐di‐iso‐propylphenyl)‐3,3,5,5‐tetramethyl‐pyrrolidin‐2‐ylidene (cAACMe) with the group 14 hydrides GeH2Mes2 and SnH2Me2 (Me=CH3, Mes=1,3,5‐(CH3)3C6H2) is presented. The reaction of GeH2Mes2 with cAACMe led to the insertion of cAACMe into one Ge−H bond to give cAACMeH−GeHMes2 (1). If 1,3,4,5‐tetramethyl‐imidazolin‐2‐ylidene (Me2ImMe) was used as the carbene, NHC‐mediated dehydrogenative coupling occurred, which led to the NHC‐stabilized germylene Me2ImMe⋅GeMes2 (2). The reaction of SnH2Me2 with cAACMe also afforded the insertion product cAACMeH−SnHMe2 (3), and reaction of two equivalents Me2ImMe with SnH2Me2 gave the NHC‐stabilized stannylene Me2ImMe⋅SnMe2 (4). If the sterically more demanding NHCs Me2ImMe, 1,3‐di‐isopropyl‐4,5‐dimethyl‐imidazolin‐2‐ylidene (iPr2ImMe) and 1,3‐bis‐(2,6‐di‐isopropylphenyl)‐imidazolin‐2‐ylidene (Dipp2Im) were employed, selective formation of cyclic oligomers (SnMe2)n (5; n=5–8) in high yield was observed. These cyclic oligomers were also obtained from the controlled decomposition of cAACMeH−SnHMe2 (3).