The treatment of 4,5-dimethyl-1,3-bis(2-pyridylmethyl)-1H-imidazolium chloride with M[N(SiMe 3 ) 2 ] 2 (THF) 2 (M = Ca, Yb) in 1:2 molar ratio results in the formation of a carbene fragment, activation of the picolyl CH bond, and dearomatization of one of the pyridine rings and affords bis(amido) complexes [(NHC)MN-(SiMe 3 ) 2 ] 2 (M = Ca (2), Yb (3)) coordinated by a μ 2 -bridging pincer NHC amido ligand. Complexes 2 and 3 demonstrate high catalytic activity and excellent regio-and chemoselectivities in the intermolecular hydrophosphination of styrene with both primary and secondary phosphines. Complexes 2 and 3 enable selective addition of PhPH 2 , Ph 2 PH, (CH 2 ) 4 NH, and (CH 2 ) 5 NH to para-divinylbenzene with high conversions under mild conditions. Tandem hydrophosphination/hydroamination of para-divinylbenzene was also performed.